Write love stories during a digital detox

Every month, I find myself gathering a collection of things—stories, aesthetics, and oddly satisfying objects—that have either inspired me, brought me genuine joy, or significantly shifted my perspective on daily life. These aren’t just random favorites; they are pieces that speak to the rhythm of observation and the search for something more meaningful.

The journey into these new obsessions often starts with literature. Recently, diving back into the world of David Sedaris proved to be a wonderfully humbling experience. Watching him record his daily observations in his diaries showed me the power of disciplined observation—a process I realized I was also engaging in when writing my own work. The inspiration wasn’t a sudden burst of manic energy; it was the quiet realization that I too could harness the simple act of observing, turning mundane life into material for something profound.

This shift from seeking external fireworks to finding internal calm is key. Instead of chasing ephemeral excitement, I discovered the power of being low-key inspired—a more sustainable form of motivation that allows creativity to breathe without the pressure of constant high-octane bursts.

Beyond the written word, cinematic experiences have also left a lasting mark. The Hulu series Love Story, based on the story of JFK Jr and Carolyn Bessette, resonated deeply. It wasn’t just the drama; it was the sheer visual aesthetic of that era—the style, the fashion, the feeling of that time—that pulled me back into a kind of nostalgic longing. It made me reflect on how quickly the world changes, yet how certain fundamental human emotions endure across the decades.

This reflection extended into my appreciation for design and tactile quality. I found myself drawn to materials that feel inherently good. Whether it was the cool, breathable feel of seersucker fabric, which manages to keep you comfortable in the summer heat, or the luxurious density of high-quality towels, I appreciate items that offer substance rather than fleeting trends.

This preference for quality extends to everyday objects. I recently made a conscious effort to declutter my environment and focus on items that serve a clear purpose. This led me to invest in thoughtfully designed pieces, like a beautiful digital alarm clock that feels less like a mere utility and more like an iconic object—a stylish anchor in the room.

The pursuit of simplicity is also about managing the constant digital noise. I’m actively trying to carve out non-working hours free from the endless scroll. This meant making a deliberate choice to swap fleeting notifications for tangible presence, recognizing that true peace comes not from more information, but from mindful attention.

Ultimately, these favorites—the literary observation, the emotional depth of a television narrative, and the aesthetic pleasure found in quality objects—all converge on the same theme: finding inspiration not in grand gestures, but in the quiet, intentional choices we make about how we live our lives. It is in these small, carefully curated moments that true joy is often found.

By Ava Taylor